STAR LETTER: The grief never goes – but kindness makes a difference.

Dear Editor,

How things change – and not for the better.

In 1989 my wife and I attended the coroner’s court for the inquest of our son, who was fatally injured in a motorcycle accident in Germany whilst serving in the REME.

Before the hearing we were greeted by a police officer, who explained the procedure. Mr J S K Chesterton would spare us as much distress and he would be permitted in open court, but should we require any clarification he would meet us in private chambers.

Because of a mess up by the MOD it became more drawn out. At all times we were treated with courtesy and consideration by Mr Chesterton and his staff. The policeman I saw at various times, he never failed to greet me and discussed how we were getting on. I unfortunately never knew his name.

Of course, the pain and grief of losing a child never leaves, but the care people took to help as much as they could was a comfort.

Perhaps the current coroner might read this and fully understand trauma.

John and Christine Brayford, Newport